Hey peeps, Now don't mind me in this installement - Guys, Im gona get a little greezy but im still the same princess diva I ever was.
I decided to write this blog after listening to Miss Keri Baby (Keri Hilson's) track - Beautiful Mistake from her "No boys allowed" album (Excuse the plug but it's a good album). The track is about when u are casually seeing someone, the sex is immense but you have that realisation that: "That this isnt right" and "this isnt where you should be (for whatever reason) and "OMG - this was another BEAUTIFUL MISTAKE"
I remembered in my young days, selling my self short by being easily curious about nearly every guy I liked (apart being curious, I also got dealt like a bimbo)....being gamed on my guys!!! Letting them fill my head with SHIT "It was total shit on some occasions - but I will go into that in a bit" People, please tell me that I am not the only 1 who felt ripped off by some of your previous sexual partners. Talking the talking, but dont know shit about the GOOD shit!!! Them girls that got the right bits but are far too lazy to get involved or just dont have a clue! Or that guy who can turn you on sexually with a bit of flirting but you would never fuck again in a million years (Sigh of frustration)
So there are some Beautiful mistake and others are just MISTAKES...failures...learning curves!! One quick piecce of advice doe - Guys: if you are not well-in-downed so got what I will call a minitonka, try other sexual practices! (You know what I mean) MOVING ON - I found the person who likes to indulge in convo str8 after the deed is done - is usually a shit fuck. Take a second and think about it! They say shit like "You looked like you enjoyed that?" Am i lying?
When we have that realisation (esp. Females) its usually nothing about the sex! It probably was the best she had had in a while but either or circumstances (Babymother, Age, How you know eachother etc) or even your personality (Bigheaded, Insecure, Jealousy, Needy etc) is just not compatible. I know as a female, when we are seeing someone, we are thinking about PROSPECTS! If we aint going in the same direction, regardless of the sexual favours (some outweigh others doe, take note)...Imma soon cut you loose!! For some guys it's: "Is she a slag?" or "Aint that my bredrins ting?"
The best way for us as young people is to do the impossible...To avoid possible disappointment! We should take the time to get to know either other better BEFORE we decide to show him/her what we are made of...breasts...arse...cock..tongues etc!!!!! Don't sell yourself short for the idea of maybe getting a possibly good time with your new hot link! Having a deep convo or even attempting to get to know them, could save you alot of time and space for other knotches on you bed post!!
Hopefully I mad you giggle a little and give you the opportunity to reminisce about the good times and some bad!!
Yasmin, over and out!!! Remember it's all about Love, Life and Laughter xxx
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