Does hard work really pay off!!!

When I was in school I was lead to believe that if you work hard enough you can achieve anything , “you can even go to oxford or Cambridge” , but look around you how many of your friends actually achieved this fed dream. Now 20 after finishing school, college and now at uni always getting grades just feels like I spent 8 years of my life (secondary school, college) being led to believe I can fly when , life’s just making me feel I’m being set up to fall.

                   A rich dumb person can attend those university’s with the worst grades and with the best commodity (money)and  get in while; others sweat, cry, stress, and try with all there might and will never be excepted.  Same way you can go for a job and be much more suited for it then the next guy but because his dad golf’s with the company owner he’s in. So what about the hard worker who can’t get into the best Uni or who’s parents have never even seen a golf course. 

What about us!!!          

                  

No one told me it’s who you know not what you know because instead of having my head in nonsense books I would have been making contacts, if I knew it was all about gangs and if we don’t like you your out ( that’s work places) I would have moved country and enjoyed the sunshine from the counties I originate from and that way wouldn’t have to be discriminated for being different. They should have had a class on how to suck ass and not on bullshit Citizenship, at least we would all have been clued up on how to be a doggy, so we can trade our time for money and all it takes in one person to say sorry we don’t want you here, like so many unfortunate hard working people made redundant of simply fired during the recession, who just like you and me was fed the work hard bullshit and you might make it gimmick; worked hard to have to spend his/her live listening to some old prick that filled his pocket from your hard work, and dropped you like a hot potato.                                                

If you’re working class like me, then invest in your talent have faith in yourself and push anything god has given you as far as it can go but don’t be a narrow minded sheep and think what you see around you is the be all and end all. Be free to dream live life to the MAX!!!!! Fear is for pussies, scream , shout, dance , BE HAPPY

Don’t spend your life being regular, when you can truly be yourself if you have faith in who you are!!!

MRS CAPONE – trying to inspire and free your mind!!!!(even just for a moment)

How many times are you allowed to fuck up!!!

How many time are we allowed to make the same mistake, my mum always said this to me in portugese: "the first time you make a mistake it's fine it happens, second time ok well I hoped you learnt now , third time your a dame FOOL. But is that really the case is it not all about trial and error, many of the very vital things we have around us for example electricity were made through trial and error, I'm sure he got it wrong more times the he did right.
I beat myself up when I make a mistake however this afternoon I had an epiphany, is it all not a learning progress. I heard one wise person say life goes in stages up and down up and down, when your at the foot of the mountain your learning, progressing so don't look at it as a failure your just learning how to get to the top; and when you reach the top you've mastered that stage in your life, and down again to learn something new. So if your like me don't beat yourself up because your not at the top realise that when you get there everything your going through now will be worth it, don't regret hard decisions let it be, listen to yourself and be wise. + Only god can judge you so f**k anyone else !!

Parenthood is no joke!!!! Get seriouse!!! Part 1

This week I was going to go in on people parenting skills, I have written the whole article and everything. However I was in my car the other day after uploading new music to my iPhone, I put on 'The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill' everyone knows that's an album and put on 'To Zion', whilst listening I began to cry, because I felt every word of the song, And any mother will agree and understand.
As I cried thinking about the "joy of my world" I no longer wanted to post my piece on the failers on my generation of perants, but share with you guy this feeling that Lauryn was trying to explain, and remind us all of "the joy" of any perants world and we need to do everything in our power to show our children just this.
"Unsure of what the balance held,I touched my belly overwhelmed" .

I remember this moment like it was yesterday, scared, uncertain, definitely overwhelmed. I remember the first moment knowing I was pregnant, thinking no way I'm I keeping it, that would be crazy.

"I knew his life deserved a chance, But everybody told me to be smart"

conflicted between my heart, my mind and other peoples opinions. Everyone from my mother to my best friend told be abortion was what needed to be done, but in my heart I knew she was the choosen one. Now I could quote you line by line because I can identify with this song that much, and the second verse is just power:
"And I thank you for choosing me
To come through unto life to be
A beautiful reflection of his grace
For I know that a gift so great
Is only one God could create
And I'm reminded every time I see your face"

This is the point I really want to drive home, please people do not forget your child is a gift, and Im glad I decided to follow my heart because my angle is the light of my life, I need her as much as she needs me. And I know every parent must feel the same. However not all show this and this love gets mixed in with the stress and craziness of this western society we all reside in. No one is perfect, but that life is in your hands....... Be greatful for the "joy of your world", when there are people out there that will never experience what you have ...... To be continued Mrs Capone

DAMN!!! I wish I could stay but we were a beautiful mistake!!

Hey peeps, Now don't mind me in this installement - Guys, Im gona get a little greezy but im still the same princess diva I ever was.

I decided to write this blog after listening to Miss Keri Baby (Keri Hilson's) track - Beautiful Mistake from her "No boys allowed" album (Excuse the plug but it's a good album). The track is about when u are casually seeing someone, the sex is immense but you have that realisation that: "That this isnt right" and "this isnt where you should be (for whatever reason) and "OMG - this was another BEAUTIFUL MISTAKE"

I remembered in my young days, selling my self short by being easily curious about nearly every guy I liked (apart being curious, I also got dealt like a bimbo)....being gamed on my guys!!! Letting them fill my head with SHIT "It was total shit on some occasions - but I will go into that in a bit" People, please tell me that I am not the only 1 who felt ripped off by some of your previous sexual partners. Talking the talking, but dont know shit about the GOOD shit!!! Them girls that got the right bits but are far too lazy to get involved or just dont have a clue! Or that guy who can turn you on sexually with a bit of flirting but you would never fuck again in a million years (Sigh of frustration)

So there are some Beautiful mistake and others are just MISTAKES...failures...learning curves!! One quick piecce of advice doe - Guys: if you are not well-in-downed so got what I will call a minitonka, try other sexual practices! (You know what I mean) MOVING ON - I found the person who likes to indulge in convo str8 after the deed is done - is usually a shit fuck. Take a second and think about it! They say shit like "You looked like you enjoyed that?" Am i lying?

When we have that realisation (esp. Females) its usually nothing about the sex! It probably was the best she had had in a while but either or circumstances (Babymother, Age, How you know eachother etc) or even your personality (Bigheaded, Insecure, Jealousy, Needy etc) is just not compatible. I know as a female, when we are seeing someone, we are thinking about PROSPECTS! If we aint going in the same direction, regardless of the sexual favours (some outweigh others doe, take note)...Imma soon cut you loose!! For some guys it's: "Is she a slag?" or "Aint that my bredrins ting?"

The best way for us as young people is to do the impossible...To avoid possible disappointment! We should take the time to get to know either other better BEFORE we decide to show him/her what we are made of...breasts...arse...cock..tongues etc!!!!! Don't sell yourself short for the idea of maybe getting a possibly good time with your new hot link! Having a deep convo or even attempting to get to know them, could save you alot of time and space for other knotches on you bed post!!

Hopefully I mad you giggle a little and give you the opportunity to reminisce about the good times and some bad!!

Yasmin, over and out!!! Remember it's all about Love, Life and Laughter xxx

Chocolate brownie cake recipe - Recipes - BBC Good Food

Chocolate brownie cake recipe - Recipes - BBC Good Food


I'm making this cake today guys wish me luck, I'm going to post a pic when it's made. No lie I'm suesy homemaker in the making.
Mrs Capone xx

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